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Can you say no?

By John On March 18, 2009 · 73 Comments · In Beginner, Vocabulary

generalHow to say ‘NO’!

Do you know how to say ‘no’? Sometimes it can be difficult! Especially if someone really pushes for you to say ‘yes’.

Today, let’s look at a common way to say ‘no’. It is also polite!

     “No thanks, I’m alright.”  OR “No thanks, I’m right.”

          

Example:
Q: Would you like some tea?A: No thank you.

Q: Oh, go on! It is very nice tea!
 
A: No really, thank you, but I’m alright.

Remember: It is okay to say ‘no’. In fact, I think it is very important to say ‘no’! If you say ‘yes’ all the time, people will treat you badly!

Today’s sentence is a very clear, polite way to say ‘no’. Try it for yourself!


Question: Do you know any other ways to say ‘no’ politely?

Practice: Would you like some beer?

Put your answer in the comments!

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73 Responses to Can you say no?

  1. dhean says:
    March 19, 2009 at 12:58 pm

    no,thanks

    Reply
    • John says:
      March 20, 2009 at 12:15 am

      Good work!

      Reply
  2. divya says:
    March 23, 2009 at 10:11 pm

    no thanks

    Reply
    • John says:
      March 26, 2009 at 4:19 am

      Perfect Divya!

      Reply
  3. Sami says:
    March 30, 2009 at 12:42 am

    No, thanks, I am alright

    Reply
    • John says:
      March 31, 2009 at 12:32 am

      Perfect! Well done!

      Reply
  4. ROBERTO says:
    April 3, 2009 at 4:17 pm

    NO THANKS I M ALRIGHT

    Reply
    • John says:
      April 4, 2009 at 4:56 pm

      Great work Roberto. Don’t forget the apostrophe in I’M!

      Well done!

      Reply
  5. Robert says:
    April 7, 2009 at 4:54 am

    Robert says No thanks Please some lesson 4 per week it is oky

    Reply
  6. John says:
    April 13, 2009 at 4:23 am

    Hi Robert

    I am glad to see you want more lessons! A lot more are coming soon!

    Reply
  7. anu says:
    April 13, 2009 at 11:04 am

    No,thank you,I am fine.

    Reply
  8. Ori says:
    April 15, 2009 at 1:25 am

    No, Thank you

    Reply
  9. s@r@ says:
    April 15, 2009 at 1:59 am

    I would like to have some, but I am sorry I feel dizzy ^_*

    Reply
    • John says:
      April 19, 2009 at 4:36 am

      Hi Sara

      This is a fine answer. But they may then get worried that you are sick!

      Reply
  10. Johnny says:
    May 5, 2009 at 4:51 am

    No,thank you!I have to drive,I can\’t have too much.

    Reply
    • John says:
      July 8, 2009 at 1:13 am

      Excellent!! 100%

      Reply
  11. mohaned says:
    June 6, 2009 at 3:45 am

    no thanks

    Reply
    • John says:
      July 8, 2009 at 1:21 am

      Great! 100%!

      Reply
  12. roberta says:
    June 14, 2009 at 7:20 pm

    oh no thanks, you are very kind, but I’ve just finished one and I must drive to home…it will be next time….

    Reply
    • John says:
      July 8, 2009 at 1:24 am

      Great!

      Be careful…

      ‘drive home’ (no ‘to’ needed)

      Reply
  13. krishnan says:
    June 27, 2009 at 12:20 am

    no thanks

    Reply
    • John says:
      July 8, 2009 at 1:26 am

      perfect!

      Reply
  14. rosheil says:
    July 21, 2009 at 8:56 pm

    Thanks for the offer but lets drink sometime I still have hangover.

    Reply
  15. kazem says:
    August 26, 2009 at 12:15 am

    no thank you a lot , I can’t drink it , it has a malodor taste.

    Reply
    • John says:
      August 26, 2009 at 5:53 pm

      Hi Kazeem.

      Good effort. You should not use the word ‘malodor’ here. Instead, use you could use words such as: horrible, terrible, foul.

      Example:
      I don’t drink. It tastes horrible.
      It tastes terrible.
      It is foul.

      Reply
  16. nasser says:
    November 29, 2009 at 5:06 am

    No thanks, I am alright

    Reply
    • John says:
      December 2, 2009 at 8:08 am

      Well done!

      Reply
  17. Julie. says:
    December 17, 2009 at 9:21 am

    I really appreciate that, but no, thanks. You are very kind.

    Reply
    • John says:
      December 20, 2009 at 1:56 pm

      Perfect! And polite!
      Well done!
      John

      Reply
  18. mai says:
    January 11, 2010 at 3:21 am

    Thank you for your offer but I can’t. I’m allergic to alcohol.

    Reply
    • John says:
      January 11, 2010 at 11:13 pm

      Good work! Is it true?

      Reply
      • Mai says:
        January 20, 2010 at 2:45 am

        Yes,it is. When I studied in the university,some of my friend tried to persuade me to drink beer but I refused. Later I wanted to know the taste of it just to learn it taste not addict to it,I tried it a little bit,you know the following day I have some rashes on my back. The doctor said maybe it was because of my drinking.

        Reply
        • John says:
          January 31, 2010 at 6:38 pm

          That is terrible!
          I also do not really drink.

          Reply
  19. abdal says:
    January 11, 2010 at 5:27 am

    Yes,Please it is good to have too much in cold days.

    Reply
    • John says:
      January 11, 2010 at 11:12 pm

      Goof effort Abdal.

      Be careful: ‘on’ cold days.

      Reply
  20. hakim says:
    January 11, 2010 at 8:05 am

    No Thank you very much but I stopped alcohol since last summer

    Reply
    • John says:
      January 11, 2010 at 11:11 pm

      Great try Hakim. The correct sentence is:

      No, thank you very much but I have stopped drinking. I haven’t drunk any alcohol since last summer.

      John

      Reply
  21. sam says:
    January 28, 2010 at 8:19 am

    Thanks for asking,i dont take caffeine too much, i drink tea only once a day.

    Reply
    • John says:
      January 31, 2010 at 6:34 pm

      Hi Sam
      Your answer is clear!
      Perhaps it would be better to say:

      “Thanks for asking, but I don’t like to drink too much caffeine. I only drink tea once a day.”

      Is your answer real? I also don’t like to drink too much caffeine!

      Reply
  22. pinklee says:
    February 27, 2010 at 2:37 am

    Thank you very much for your tea but I am quite full.Actually in HK I did meet those very pushy sales girls.Once you take one cloth and ready to pay and the sales girl will tell you if you buy two you will have another discount for the next item. So usually I will tell them I am sorry i just have the amount of money to pay for the one.If you tell them you don’t like the item they will bring another to you or tell you other itwm also have the same discount.

    Reply
    • John says:
      March 3, 2010 at 4:47 am

      Ha ha! Yes, I have had the same experience pink!
      One time a salesman hit me because I wouldn’t buy his stuff. It wasn’t a serious hit, but he was very frustrated!

      Reply
  23. pinklee says:
    March 27, 2010 at 7:46 pm

    I think no matter how they dislike they shouldn’t have hit you!!You can call for the police and write to the consumer council if this happen in HK.

    Reply
    • John says:
      April 6, 2010 at 7:22 pm

      I agree Pink!

      I was very suprised! It didn’t happen in HK though – don’t worry!

      Reply
  24. ml fernando says:
    June 10, 2010 at 12:54 am

    No thanks I wont take alcohol can i have some tea or cofee please

    Reply
    • John says:
      June 15, 2010 at 8:39 pm

      Very polite! Great stuff!

      Reply
  25. ml fernando says:
    June 18, 2010 at 1:42 am

    i want speak english fluently but couldn’t how can i improve my english speaking skill
    Play Audio Comment

    Reply
    • John says:
      July 7, 2010 at 7:43 pm

      Great work ml!

      You speak very clearly! Your recording is great!

      The best way to improve is to practice.

      Have you joined my discussion forum and chat room yet?

      Reply
  26. ml fernando says:
    July 8, 2010 at 12:18 am

    I want join in discussion form and chat room but i couldn’t open it

    Reply
  27. ml fernando says:
    July 8, 2010 at 12:19 am

    I want join in discussion form and chat room but i couldn\’t open it

    Reply
    • John says:
      July 14, 2010 at 10:37 pm

      This video will help you:

      http://www.askjohnenglish.com/learn/mod/resource/view.php?inpopup=true&id=122#join

      John

      Reply
  28. suzy farg says:
    October 26, 2010 at 5:00 am

    Thank you ,I have some pains in my stomach.

    Reply
  29. suzy farg says:
    October 26, 2010 at 5:01 am

    No, Thank you ,I have some pains in my stomach.

    Reply
    • John says:
      October 27, 2010 at 8:25 pm

      Good answer… but do you really have pains? If you say this, the person will worry about you and try to help you.

      It is probably better to just say ‘No thanks’ than to say something that isn’t true. If you say something that isn’t true it will create more trouble for yourself!

      Reply
  30. Naira says:
    November 4, 2010 at 4:38 am

    Hi John.thank you for this lesson.I think it is very important lesson,and expecially for me,because it is very difficult to say no for me.I think when you say no,very polite person can understand and reapet once and stop.

    Reply
    • John says:
      November 14, 2010 at 7:42 pm

      Hi Naira

      Yes most people who are sensible will listen to ‘no’. And if they don’t listen to ‘no’, then they are not very nice people!

      Reply
  31. taro says:
    January 14, 2011 at 10:41 pm

    Beer? Oh, I don’t like to drink something like piss of yeast fungi.
    I’m sorry if my words hart your feelings. Just I don’t want to drink beer.
    Besides, it’s impossible for me to understand those who drink beer.
    I’m sorry. please let me alone.

    Reply
    • John says:
      January 16, 2011 at 6:31 pm

      Wow Taro!
      Those words are quite strong! Especially when you say “piss of yeast fungi” and “please let me alone”

      I think if you went out with someone for dinner and you said that, they may not ask you ever again!

      I would suggest something lighter and more friendly!

      Reply
      • taro says:
        January 18, 2011 at 2:18 am

        Hello John,

        Thank you for your reply. I will try to use lighter words.

        No, I want to drink beer if possible, but tonight I came to this pub alone in a car.
        As I don’t want to be penalized by police, I can’t drink any beer. Sorry.

        Reply
        • John says:
          January 18, 2011 at 10:23 pm

          Much nicer taro! Your first answer could also make a funny joke if you are with good friends.

          Reply
  32. sara says:
    January 15, 2011 at 7:16 pm

    NO THANKS I M ALRIGHT

    Reply
    • John says:
      January 16, 2011 at 6:25 pm

      Perfect Sara!

      Reply
  33. samira says:
    July 8, 2011 at 1:17 am

    No,thanks . i am alright

    Reply
    • John says:
      July 11, 2011 at 8:23 pm

      Great answer Samira!

      Reply
  34. samira says:
    July 8, 2011 at 1:20 am

    hi
    would you tell me what’s the difference between Australian English and Br or Am English?
    thanks

    Reply
    • John says:
      July 11, 2011 at 8:31 pm

      Hi Samira
      They main difference between US and Australian English is the pronunciation and also some vocabulary.

      However, most Australians can understand 100% of what Americans say.

      Australian English is very much the same as British English as far as words and spelling, but the pronunciation is a bit different.

      Most language learners cannot tell the difference between these different English accents at first. But over time they can.

      Which accent do you prefer Samira?

      Reply
  35. agnes aguilar says:
    October 6, 2011 at 9:41 pm

    No, thank you. I dont drink beer, could you give me a glass of pineapple juice instead, please?

    Reply
    • John says:
      October 15, 2011 at 11:30 pm

      Nice work! 100% correct! Do you like pineapple juice best?

      Reply
  36. Sahar says:
    October 27, 2011 at 9:58 pm

    Hello my teacher John,
    It’s really a nice lesson. And I loved the stories..lol. Especially the first story about the t-shirt. :D That’s really happens to us sometimes. xD I’d like to share with you and all visitors this video: http://www.engvid.com/polite-english-saying-yes-no/ Best wishes!

    Reply
    • John says:
      October 29, 2011 at 8:22 pm

      Thanks for sharing Sahar!

      Reply
  37. mansureh says:
    November 30, 2011 at 10:19 pm

    oh tanks but I didn’t drink any alcohol

    Reply
    • John says:
      December 1, 2011 at 11:05 pm

      Good answer Mansureh! A very healthy choice!

      Some feedback: “Oh thanks, But I don’t drink any alcohol.”

      Reply
  38. Shahab says:
    January 10, 2012 at 6:56 am

    Thanks a lot. May be some other time.

    Reply
    • John says:
      January 26, 2012 at 12:55 pm

      Great answer Shahab!

      Reply

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